I don't recommend it. I have never been with a virgin, but I don't think it's going to be much fun. And don't even try that "but if you love him" crap. Even if you never get around to forcing the conversation, you could always just assume that he is coming to dinner and while you are at the Christmas lights, say something like, "I made tacos for dinner, I hope you like them spicy." As in Caliente. As in Hot Mama. As in is this Friday freaking over yet. Christ.