Pretty good

The pool place we went to was actually pretty good. It is billed as chichi but it didn't seem overly so when we were there. I suspect strongly that if I were there on a Friday or a Saturday I would hate it. In fact when we were getting ready to leave I could see the patrons that were coming in were more what I expected to see there and more what would've annoyed me. I will say that I had the best plate of nachos ever there. It was huge and full of chickenny goodness and great cheese. Great yummy cheese.

Big R's boyfriend is a super nice guy. I really like him. Frighteningly (and Big R pointed this out himself) the boyfriend is somewhat a male version of me. Maybe I should take that as a compliment. :) He gave Big R the sweetest birthday present. He wants Big R to go camping with him (and this is a testament to their relationship that Big R is even considering it...). Big R is terrified of bears. (Who knows why.) So for his birthday the boyfriend got Big R bear spray, a bear bell, a book about what to do if a bear attacks, gummy bears and charmin toilet paper. Isn't that cute? Also a testament to their relationship... once upon a time Big R explained to me every thing he was unwilling to do with his partner, which for a gay man left almost nothing. They've crossed all those hurdles which I think is somewhat impressive since Big R was VERY adamant about that. :)

So two of my friends are now coupled up successfully (Lyday and Big R. Little hands is still a single gal). If I may have a moment of self-pity while I'm glad for my friends that they've found someone to make them happy for now. But it makes me sad for me. Am I that awful? You know?

Anyway, I've digressed and wallowed too much so moving on. Moment over.

I watched the last 1/2 of the season finale of Veronica Mars. Damn it was good, to me at least. If the whole season had been that good I don't think it would've been cancelled, but the rest of the season was not good. So sad for a show that started out with such promise and that I really loved the first season.