So I think this tattoo design is the winner. I liked it along with another one, but I did like this one better. Probably it will have to not be this exact thing because I think designs are owned by the artists blah blah blah... But this way I can go in and say I want something like this... and let the designer come up with something.
Ok for some reason I can't make the link work even though I made another link work once before. weird... but here it is:
http://www.bmezine.com/tattoo/A30506/high/chbm450i.jpg